My Love Why

 My Love For You Is Real

Sometimes at night,

When I look to the sky,

I start thinking of you,

And then ask myself "why?"

"Why do I love you?"

I think and smile,

Because I know,

The list could run on for mile.

The whisper of your voice,

The warmth of your touch,

So many little things,

Make me love you so much.

The way you support me,

Even my silly notions,

The way that you care,

And show such devotion.

The way that your kiss,

Fills me with desire,

And how you hold me,

With the warmth of a fire.

The way your eyes shine,

When you look at me,

Lost with you forever,

Is where i want to be.

The way that I feel,

When you are by my side,

A sense of completion,

And overflowing pride.

The dreams that I dream,

That all involve you,

The possibilities that I see,

The things that we can do.

How you finish the puzzle,

That lies inside my heart,

How deep in my soul,

You are a very important part.

I could go on for days,

Telling of what I feel,

But all you really must know is...

My love for you is real.

Rules for Success

1.       Never get more than nine hours of sleep, or less than three. I believe in adequate rest, but too much sleep is wasting time that could be spent on anything from self-edification to world domination.

2.       It’s better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.

3.       Write it down. Your memory is shit.

4.       Get your clothes tailored. A $200 suit that fits well looks better than a $500 suit that doesn't.

5.       Show love. Never, ever, ever hold back from giving a compliment, as long as it's sincere. There’s never a bad time to say something nice. Get in the habit of doing this. People will love you for it.

6.       Give credit. Don’t steal other people’s shit. If you got an idea from someone else, drop their name and throw them a link. Do this even if it’s not proprietary.

7.       On cologne: Less is more, if you buy the good stuff. Have a scent for day and night.

8.       Nobody gives a shit about your SAT score. Or, really, any other accomplishment older than two years. If you feel the need to work this into conversation, you need to become more interesting.

9.       You're allowed to say no to shit you don't like. I don’t generally believe in the idea of “obligation.” While there are things you “probably should” do, there is almost nothing you “need” to do. If I don’t like something, I will very rarely agree to do it. I have said “no” to everything you can imagine.

10.   For example, I no longer attend holidays with my extended family; I just don’t enjoy it (too much fighting), so I don’t go. Does my family complain? Sure. Do they try to make me feel guilty? Absolutely. Do I cave in? F*ck no.

11.   Do something you hate. Do it every day for 30 days. Then never do it again. Most of the time, when you “hate” something, it’s because you’re not good at it. A lot of guys think they hate dancing, for example, but what they really hate is the way being bad at it makes them feel. So spend 30 days getting proficient at an activity you hate; if at the end of that period you still hate it, never do it again.

12.   "Don't criticize an idea unless you're willing to provide an alternative."  If you don't have a better suggestion, shut the f*ck up. I find this is especially useful for trying to pick a restaurant.

13.   Never play cards with a guy who has a city in his nickname. Miami John, the Cincinnati Kid, Texas Dolly -- all dudes better to avoid.

14.   Don't judge what people do in the bedroom. As long as it's consensual and not with underage kids, make the effort to simply not care where they put their junk or in what way they do it. Chances are, their porn-browsing history is no more f*cked up than yours.

15.   Try not to have enemies. But if someone insists on making themselves one, do your worst.

16.   “If you go home with someone and they don’t have books, don’t f*ck them.” –John Waters.

17.   At least once in your life, get absolutely shredded.

18.   If a girl hasn't seen Star Wars, don't bother dating her.

A special message

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
― Bob Marley

The Texas Theatre

Once the heart of the southwest Dallas community—a grand, palatial gathering place marked by a brightly lit sign that spelled T-E-X-A-S, touting top-of-the-line acoustics and appurtenances, the Texas Theatre was opened at 231 West Jefferson Boulevard with fanfare on April 21, 1931. The Texas Theatre was the novelty of long time Oak Cliff resident and entrepreneur, C. R. McHenry, better known in the community as “Uncle Mack.” McHenry’s dream was to build a theater with state-of-the-art projection and sound equipment.

McHenry partnered with four Dallas area businessmen to help him realize this dream: Harold B. Robb, E. H. Rowley, (Robb & Rowley Theatres) W. G. Underwood and David Bernbaum. Together they hired renowned architect W. Scott Dunne to design the Texas. The men spared no expense and boasted that the theater was “fireproof”—constructed entirely of concrete. The theater’s opera seating cost $19,000, the projection and sound system cost $12,000, the 1,240 yards of the finest grade carpet cost $5,000, and the Barton organ, the second largest in the City of Dallas, cost $10,000. However, McHenry was most proud of the cooling and ventilation system, which blew 200,000 cubic feet of air per minute through a water-cooled system pumped from a 4,000-gallon tank. The cooling system made “The Texas” the first theater in Dallas with air conditioning. Billionaire film producer and renowned aviator Howard Hughes briefly owned the Robb & Rowley movie theater chain in the early 30′s during construction and opening of the Texas Theatre.

On November 22, 1963 at approximately 1:45 p.m., nearly 15 Dallas police officers converged on the Texas Theatre in search of a man who had entered without paying. That man was Lee Harvey Oswald—President John F. Kennedy’s accused lone assassin.

President Kennedy’s assassination marked a violent end to the Age of Camelot and forever scarred the American psyche. As the Texas Theatre rocketed into the international spotlight, an urgency to hide, deny and destroy it tore its way through Dallas. Shortly thereafter—in what is coined locally among preservationists as the most comprehensive architectural cover-up of the Twentieth Century—the theater’s vibrant designs, false bridges, towers and campaniles, decorative wood railings, and star and cloud painted ceilings were sealed from public view under a spanish style stucco re-design.

As technology in moving, talking, and color pictures progressed and drive-ins and multiplex cinema became the rave, the Texas Theatre’s patrons slowly moved on to other entertainment venues. Failing to capture a considerable audience, United Artists closed the theater in 1989. In an attempt to save it, the Texas Theatre Historical Society (TTHS) bought the theater in 1990. Acknowledging its importance to the President’s assassination, TTHS allowed Oliver Stone to remodel the exterior façade for his 1990 film, JFK. However in 1992, the Society was no longer able to make the mortgage payments and the theater closed once more. Shortly thereafter, former usher and sign changer Don Dubois of Texas Rosewin-Midway Properties saved the theater from the wrecking ball. Nevertheless, two years later in 1995, it was nearly destroyed by a five-alarm fire, forcing the doors shut yet again.

In 1996, Pedro Villa rescued the theater from demolition when he learned of plans to convert it into a furniture warehouse. However, as Villa’s resources were exhausted and his pleas for investments went unheard, the theater defaulted back to Texas Rosewin-Midway Properties. The tattered and torn building remained vacant for three years, succumbing to vandals, stray animals, and hostile weather.

In 2001 The Oak Cliff Foundation purchased the building and began looking for a new permanent tenant. Several areas of the building were renovated and upgraded by the OCF. The Texas Theatre was added to the National Register of Historic Places in 2003.

On August 31st, 2010, Aviation Cinemas Inc, a company formed by filmmaker and film industry consultant Barak Epstein took over the lease of the Texas Theatre. Epstein enlisted the help of filmmakers Adam Donaghey, Eric Steele and Jason Reimer to begin new cinema and event venue operations at the Texas Theatre

Today in Texas History: Downtown Dallas in flames

On this date in 1860, a fire damaged most of downtown Dallas. The fire began in W.W. Peak Brothers’ drugstore, a popular business and gathering place in the infantile city. The fire quickly spread to other businesses, including a dry-goods store, a grocery, an insurance agency, a boot and shoe shop, brickyards, and saddle shops, ultimately destroying an entire city square.

Early Dallas was located close to the Trinity River

At the time of the fire, the population of Dallas totaled 678 people. The fire devastated the city’s economic health because, Dallas operated as the service center for the surrounding rural communities. The city depended entirely on selling goods. The fire destroyed storefronts, in addition to inventory, thus halting the city’s commercial activity and delaying continued growth.
Many residents of Dallas and others across the state charged that abolitionists and slaves were responsible for the fire. Staunch pro-slavery advocates argued that Northerners had infiltrated the state and were planning to alter the status quo using violent means to reach their chaotic goals and local pro-slavery advocates.
The Dallas Herald reported in 1892 that one local politician acknowledged,  Three slaves were convicted of arson and hanged as punishment and two Iowa preachers were exiled from Dallas.
Historian Michael Phillips accused local pro-Confederate activists of exploiting the fire for political purposes. Philllips wrote in his 1999 piece, “White Violence, Hegemony, and Slave Rebellion in Dallas, Texas, Before the Civil War,” that “Dallas County voted for secession by 76 percent, but it was seven months after the Dallas fire occurred” and that Dallas support for the Southern cause was not inevitable, stating, “The ‘southerness’ of Dallas could be measured by the length of a hangman’s rope.” In 1860, Dallas was an overwhelmingly white city for a growing Southern town. The African American population totaled 97 persons.
Even Sam Houston, who supported slavery, claimed that local officials exploited a series of accidents to conjure support for Southern slavery. Today, some people remain skeptical that a fire occurred, ascribing to conspiracy theories that allege local officials and pro-slave advocates were really in fact responsible. Conspiracy theorists believe that policy makers sought to undermine the appeal of abolitionists in a town with a small black population and strong Western principles of freedom and liberty by staging the fire to join the greater South in leaving the Union.
Dallas eventually recovered from the fire, and was rebuilt in the later part of the decade after the Civil War had ended. The city’s rebuilding was helped partly thanks to its strategic site as the quartermaster, commissary and administrative headquarters for the Confederate Army during the war.
Dallas’ new status as a central point in Texas and in the South, brought new residents and business to the city. Dallas city also experienced no fighting in its boundaries, protecting the city from further economic blight, aiding in the city’s recovery and growth in the post-war era.
Posted by Hillary Sorin on July 8, 2010 at 5:01 am

LAST DAY OF APRIL

Well it’s the end of the month; we'll be her later getting out statements I still feel it’s a waste to have to stay here till 10 pm to do what could be done during normal working hours. They don't get mailed till the next day
Just another one of the little power trip things
Oh well bitch bitch bitch
Magazine did not up load that been rough
Good weekend all in all
Think hope the house is rented, the Kido got her a place
Watched the girl with the dragon tattoo this weekend
Great movie 
Want to read the book “the girl who plays with fire" before I see the next movie
All in all a pretty good weekend
MOVING DAY IS UPON US

My Wonderful Weekend

We started with a win at AAA center

Dallas Mavericks  

HEY MARK

Stopped by mesa for appetizers’,desert and a fantastic margarita

 
This is the dessert trio. Flan (5stars), chocolate cake, Tres Leche (5 stars). This is 3 full portions!

The California (crab meat, avocado, cucumber)

Philadelphia (smoked salmon, cream cheese, avocado)

Spider (soft shell crab, smelt egg, avocado, eel sauce)

Shrimp tempura (avocado, cucumber, eel sauce)

Sushi is becoming a favorite

Lindy's Restaurant for breakfast this was not a good choice  

Biscuits, gravy, eggs, sausage, hash browns and cheese   

 shopping for the new home



back home for dinner on the grill

Hook Hanging

Native American tribes each had their own unique coming of age rituals for the men in the tribe. But few were as intense as that of the Mandans. Before his rite-of-passage, a Mandan boy fasted for 3 days to cleanse his body of impurities. Then, on the day of the ritual, elders of tribe would pierce the boy’s chest, shoulder, and back muscles with large wooden splints. Ropes, which extended from the roof of a hut, were then attached to the splints, and the young man was winched up into the air, his whole body weight suspended from the ropes. Despite the pain, the boy was not to cry out in pain. While hanging in the air, more splints were hammered through his arms and legs. Skulls of his dead grandfather and other ancestors were placed on the ends of the splints.
Eventually, the young man fainted from the loss of blood and the sheer pain of the torture. When the elders were sure he was unconscious, he was lowered down and the ropes were removed. Yet the splints were left in place. When the young man recovered consciousness, he offered his left pinky to the tribal elders to be sacrificed. He placed his finger on a block and had it swiftly chopped off. This was a gift to the gods and would enable the young man to become a powerful hunter. Finally, the young man ran inside a ring where his fellow villagers had gathered. As he ran, the villagers reached out and grabbed the still embedded splints, ripping them free. The splints weren’t allowed to be pulled out the way they had been hammered in, but had to be torn out in the opposite direction, causing the young man even greater pain and worse wounds. This concluded the day’s ceremony, and the boy was now a man.

Dallas as it should be

 This is one of my favorite pictures of Dallas

The 6 Habits of Strategic Thinkers

Anticipate 

Most of the focus at most companies is on what’s directly ahead. The leaders lack “peripheral vision.” This can leave your company vulnerable to rivals who detect and act on ambiguous signals. To anticipate well, you must:

• Look for game-changing information at the periphery of your industry
• Search beyond the current boundaries of your business
• Build wide external networks to help you scan the horizon better

Think Critically

“Conventional wisdom” opens you to fewer raised eyebrows and second guessing. But if you swallow every management fad, herdlike belief, and safe opinion at face value, your company loses all competitive advantage. Critical thinkers question everything. To master this skill you must force yourself to:

• Reframe problems to get to the bottom of things, in terms of root causes
• Challenge current beliefs and mindsets, including your own
• Uncover hypocrisy, manipulation, and bias in organizational decisions

Interpret 

Ambiguity is unsettling. Faced with it, the temptation is to reach for a fast (and potentially wrongheaded) solution.  A good strategic leader holds steady, synthesizing information from many sources before developing a viewpoint. To get good at this, you have to:

• Seek patterns in multiple sources of data
• Encourage others to do the same
• Question prevailing assumptions and test multiple hypotheses simultaneously

Decide

Many leaders fall prey to “analysis paralysis.” You have to develop processes and enforce them, so that you arrive at a “good enough” position. To do that well, you have to:

• Carefully frame the decision to get to the crux of the matter
• Balance speed, rigor, quality and agility. Leave perfection to higher powers
• Take a stand even with incomplete information and amid diverse views

 Align

Total consensus is rare. A strategic leader must foster open dialogue, build trust and engage key stakeholders, especially when views diverge.  To pull that off, you need to:

• Understand what drives other people's agendas, including what remains hidden
• Bring tough issues to the surface, even when it's uncomfortable
• Assess risk tolerance and follow through to build the necessary support

Learn

As your company grows, honest feedback is harder and harder to come by.  You have to do what you can to keep it coming. This is crucial because success and failure--especially failure--are valuable sources of organizational learning.  Here's what you need to do:

• Encourage and exemplify honest, rigorous debriefs to extract lessons
• Shift course quickly if you realize you're off track
• Celebrate both success and (well-intentioned) failures that provide insight

Well time for new digs after 20 years I'm moving to Downtown Dallas

Have wanted to live down here all my life and it’s going to be great 2.3 miles to work

Food and drink just around the corner

Life is good

 The view from patio and bedroom

Learning experience

Life is a strange thing it’s a learning experience every day. You think you know what’s going on and have everything in perspective then we do what we do make mistakes but some you can never recover from or at this time it appears that way.